After
arriving home from Niger I cannot stop thinking
about the women I saw there. While in the Ouallam
area for almost three weeks I often felt sad
as I watched them walk barefooted or maybe in
flip-flops. A baby tied on her back… with
a heavy load on her head or pails of water hanging
from each end of a stick that sat across the
base of her neck something like a 'yoke'…pounding
millet… pulling water up from a deep well…
cooking over an open fire and hoping it was
enough to feed her family…. washing the
families clothes by hand…bent over sweeping
her hut and 'yard' with a small broom…sharing
a husband with another woman and her children.
Yet every time I smiled and lifted my hand in
a wave… I always got back a beautiful
smile!
“How
do they do this Lord?” Was a question
I was constantly asking myself!
Our last day in Ouallam we went to an outer
village and God blessed me so much by allowing
me to walk side by side with a woman as she
was going for water. While I could not speak
her language.. it did not keep her from talking
to me… and all the while in between…she
was humming the sweetest song. I truly felt
like God was allowing me to see (and hear) an
answer to my question… “How do they
do this?” The answer was…. With
a song in their hearts!
A few days after I got home I read a devotional
that was perfect for my thoughts that were still
so fresh in my heart…. These women are
so vital to their culture and society! While
their 'value and worth' may seem 'small' by
the way WE view what they have to do every day
and how they are treated…God sees everything
they do and values them greatly! I realized
that what I see as a “hardship”
or “sad” is most likely what allows
this woman's family to survive and gives her
great joy.... Why… she is truly Invaluable!
-Debi
Howey
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